Coming for campus visit and interview next week

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Hello all!

My son and I will be coming to FUMA for his campus visit and interview on June 5. I've been reading through the post on the message board for the past 5 or 6 months trying to get as much information as possible. I've noticed how helpful and supportive everyone is and that is very comforting to me.

My son is 16 and I am a single mom, I'm very excited about the possiblity of him becoming a student at FUMA. I love the fact that this school has Christian values, military structure and great athletic programs. I believe this environment would be perfect for my son. My son is not excited about this at all, actually, he does not want to attend FUMA. But I think the campus visit may changed his attitude about it.

I live just east of Nashville and FUMA is an 8 hour drive from home. We decided to take a plane and make this visit a vacation. My sister and her husband live in Maryland and we will be staying with them.

In preparation for our visit I wanted to know was there anything in particular that I should ask about? Any special points of interest that I should look for? Any information will be helpful...I just want to get the most out of this visit.

Thanks!

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Bledsoe~

Any news? I have been negligent about checking the board lately...........I'm in full summer swing and loving it!

Barbara

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Bledsoe ~
I understand completely what you mean about your bank account not cooperating with the desires of your heart for your son. We were at the exact same place about two (3) years ago. The first time we thought about sending our son to FUMA I went online clicked the admissions - tuition tab and looked at that figure and said, "There is no way that we can afford it". Almost one year later to the date when we were still doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result, we went back to that same FUMA website and requested an enrollment package and said, "We can't afford not to"!!! I am proud to say that we had the courage to step out on faith and enroll our son mid-year his freshman year and he just completed his sophmore year at FUMA.

It has not been easy, but FUMA has been the best decision we could have made for our son and for us. We have watched our son transform from a kid with no motivation for academics or anything else, to a young man with goals toward college, a young man who can accept responsibility, and a young man who has respect for himself and others. (Body/Mind/Spirit)

FUMA has many options available to assist you in the enrollment of your son. I would encourage you to get on the phone with the admissions office. They are the experts and they have all the answers.

Our son was not "moved" when we took the initial FUMA tour either. His father and I were excited too, like you. However, we sent in the application immediately, stepped out on faith about the finances, and here we are getting ready for his junior year.

FUMA's motto is true - "Success stories happen here. Ours is still being written." Best of luck to you and your son, whatever your decision!

Leigh Beck
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Bledsoe~

I am SO glad your visit went well and you've received an acceptance! Not everyone does :( There is no time like the present and you are the adult in charge. Your mission should you choose to accept it: get that boy moved! If for no other reason than to please you :shock: Use whatever tools you may have in your arsenal and you will be so thankful in the end. Remember there is always the possibility that delaying a year may find you and/or the boy in such different circumstances that FUMA is no longer an option.

Keep us posted! Barbara

PS-Also something for your son to think about: there is a difference in FUMA graduates that have been enrolled for 3 or 4 years compared to 1 or 2. It takes some time to learn the system, be known in the athletic channels and excel.

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Thanks everyone for your input...

We had the campus visit...I LOVED IT! The Boy (as I like to refer to my son) was unmoved. We recieved his acceptance letter earlier this week. I read it over and over again. (doesn't take much to excite me)

I know FUMA will be good for my son and I will get him there somehow. Even if it's not this year. I am 100% sold, however, my bank account aint buying it! :roll:

The Boy was impressed with the prospect of exposure to college football recruiters. He said that he definitely wants to graduate from FUMA, but wants to stay home at least one more year (10th grade).

I am currently exploring all of my options and I will make a decision really soon. I'll keep you posted.

Thanks again everyone!

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Capt Dan you know I just love the forum. Of course when I show it to my son his reaction is "why you have to write stuff". My response is "Because I can". :D There is no better way to get questions answered and even if I don't have anything to say, I love reading the threads. I plan to stay busy on the forum this coming "senior" year.

djshaw

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Thank YOU Capt Dan! After all how can I not be indebted to "he who knows all"?

Barbara

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You know, I love my job. My job as Director of Communications is to help tell the story of FUMA. I've learned that sometimes, I do my job best when I remain silent.

I saw Bledsoe's post on the 28th and thought to myself, "Oh dear, graduation was Saturday...not a single parent is going to be checking the FUMA 411 and this question is going to go unanswered." I knew that an answer from a fellow parent would be better than anything I could say, but I was concerned that this forum would be a big ghost town in the days after school let out.

But I decided to wait a day and have faith in our families.

Lo and behold, mothers who are busy with their sons at home and out of school (indeed, even GRADUATED from FUMA in some cases) still care enough to step up as FUMA's unofficial ambassadors online.

When I want to tell others how wonderful FUMA and its families can be....all I need to do is stay quiet and the story will be told.

Thank you, moms! We couldn't do it without you....

:D

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Don't be too surprised if his *plan* is nothing like yours :roll: My son thought he was going to FUMA to play sports and he'd fill the time in between with some academics................whatever it takes to get them to own the idea.

Barbara

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You are welcome Bledsoe. As Barbara said, the time the guys spend together at football camp is invaluable. And, the Prep and JR Prep players love watching the Varsity guys work out.

Tell your son he will be up close and personal with future NFL players as FUMA has sent many a cadet to the NFL. But, I want to stress that grades and behavior come first at FUMA. I guarantee your son will love the small classes and begin to excel. The kids truly push each other to do well. I'm sure by now you are more excited than he is, but that will change!!

My name is Deborah by the way.

Have a safe and wonderful trip

2Shawz
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ALL non-PG (post graduate = 5th year high school) football players arrive on the 10th and they learn together! It's great because by the time the other cadets start arriving or filtering back they've already got their bearings and some familiar faces. PG is also known as Varsity. High school players are either Prep or Jr. Prep. Once you're a high school junior, you play prep or nothing. Your son will LOVE football at FUMA :D

Barbara

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Hi djay4one, thanks for responding. My son will be in the 10th grade this coming school year. He repeated 9th grade and didnt' do as well as I expected him to do this year, but I am told that he earned all of his credits.

I have two football related questions:

When the football camps starts in August, will that include football players that are new students as well?

And what is the difference between the Prep football players and Varsity football players?

Where you sit when you are old, shows where you stood in youth. ~Yoruba Proverb

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Hi Bledsoe,

Your story sounds familiar. I too am a single Mom and as such this is one of the hardest decision you have to make. I made that decision 3 1/2 years ago and now my son will be a Senior at FUMA. Plus, every summer since then I have heard the same song, "I want to go to public school for grade...." My response has been "oh, that's nice" and now here it is the last year.

Granted I heard that song but let me tell you once he gets back on campus, he forgets about going to any other school. I think it is just a ploy to see how far he can get. Regardless, once your son sees the campus and talks to the staff, he will be impressed (of course he may not tell you that).

FUMA is a big family and the staff is awsome. Like I said, the first step is getting here. After that everything falls into place.

My son also plays football and looks forward to the start of football camp on August 10th (that's when the football players report). What grade will you son be?

Please let us know how your visit went and if you have any other questions, feel free to e-mail.

Good luck and hope to see you regularly on the Forum.

2Shawz
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My son is definitely into football and showed a little interest when I talked about all of the athletic facilities on campus. He is 5ft 11 and weighs in at 175 lbs the last time he says he checked. (That's down from 318 a few months ago) He also likes basketball, but has never played for his school team (too lazy). He played softball when he was much younger and was really good at it, he was the pitcher/captain of the team, but hasn't shown much interest in softball or baseball since then.

I want the best for him and I tell him so all of the time. It bothers me to see him live so far below his potential.
I hope the campus visit will help him open his mind to the fact that being a part of FUMA will not only help him become a better student and athelete, but will also help him become a better person and a productive and focused young man.

I like the idea of him having a plan...that's a great concept, thanks Mrs. Right. Having a plan will also help him with the campus visit.

I'm so excited!!! :lol:

Where you sit when you are old, shows where you stood in youth. ~Yoruba Proverb

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Since your son isn't yet "sold" on FUMA, make a point to emphasize that which will be the most attractive. Athletics was the focus for my son but that doesn't do it for everyone. Having a new cadet with a plan to make the most of what interests him is a plus!

Good luck...........keep us posted :)

Barbara

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